For new clients Apply to Serve on My website. If you have questions before booking, you may email Me directly. Do not text Me if we do not already have an established dynamic. Priority is always given to those who Apply directly on My website.
You may address Me as Madame or Madame Jasper. Do not call Me Mistress, Ma’am or anything else that is not My title. I consider it disrespectful.
Depends. If you can not have marks I will do My best to ensure that does not happen but keep in mind every body is different. Some people bruise or redden more easily than others. If this is a major concern for you let Me know and I will be sure to keep things on the lighter side. If you are into pain, it just means I may not be able to be as heavy handed as you may want, especially in our first sessions together.
I am sensual, mischievous, loving, sadistic, evil enchantment - a cruel and seductive paragon of mystery and witchcraft. I love to keep My subs on their toes. Depending on the type of play we create together, I may lean more heavily into certain traits than others. I enjoy lots of sensory play along with psychological domination. I incorporate seductive dialogue into My scenes along with moments of breath and silence to deepen into sensation. I adore roleplay and take pride in My elevated aesthetic. While I enjoy elegance and protocol, you will also find I balance that with grounded energy and am quite personable.
Respectful, self-reflective and willing to learn are qualities required to serve Me. Take the initiative and do your homework to learn about Me. Be open to My feedback and have a genuine desire to do better for Me as our dynamic progresses.
I also prefer clients who are expressive and not afraid to show how they feel. I love the sound of moans, cries and whimpers. I do not enjoy clients who are stoic and feel the need to suppress themselves. Be willing to share with Me how the experience is for you during and outside of session.
Lastly, I expect you to be mindful that I am a full human being with a whole life outside of My Domme life. I do not respond well to insecure or overly needy clients. If you require constant validation, I am not the Domme for you. While I am happy to work with you through issues that may arise, I expect you to be responsible for your own emotions and ability to self-regulate.
Clients who are self-aware and have high emotional intelligence are the best clients for Me.
I have a very full schedule and life outside of My work. Please be respectful of My time and keep emails and texts reasonable. I love hearing about your excitement, progress, feedback etc. but it should not become a constant habit. Honoring time between sessions keeps our in-session time focused and meaningful.
The occasional email or text to share with Me is fine but as a general rule it is best to message only to book, sort details, give session feedback, or ask questions related to our established dynamic.
The best way is to do your research. Read through My website, follow My social accounts, see if your kinks line up with My skillset and if My style and approach appeal to you. Observe how I talk about BDSM and if it appeals to you. When you read through My website and look at My visuals are you intrigued? Look at other Pro-Dommes as well. I want to know you did your homework and did not just reach out to the first Domme you saw. I respect a client who takes the time to ensure I am indeed Who they are looking for. I am not for everyone and everyone is certainly not for Me. But for those I am for, it’s a wickedly powerful dynamic when it clicks.
Tipping is not necessary but it does leave a great impression. If you feel like you had an incredible experience and wish to relay that, a tip is always the best way. It let’s Me know you appreciate our time together and view it as “above and beyond” what you were expecting.
No. Book in advance. I've sometimes been able to accommodate a few days in advance, but 2 weeks or more is preferred.
Read. Read. Read EVERYTHING on My website to familiarize yourself with My expectations. I will also send out a Pre-Negotiation Questionnaire with My rules before our session. Learn My rules and make sure that if you have any questions you ask for clarity. I would much rather you ask than presume anything. If you do that, you will know everything you need to be prepared.
I have plenty of professional grade equipment and gear, but if you have your own you prefer to use, you may bring it. Please let Me know in advance what you wish to bring with you. Alternatively, if you want something I don’t have, you may either purchase it for Me or provide your own.
That's perfectly alright. Many people who are new to kink are in the process of figuring that out. Part of the fun is the discovery. I know for Myself there were certainly activities I was surprised I enjoyed as much as I do. (Sounding for one!) The only way to find out is to try it out.
My pre-negotiation form is there to help you navigate the journey. My advice is to be open to trying new things! You never know what you might discover abut yourself.
No. Safe words are not just for you. They are also for Me. I need to trust that you have a quick, effective way to communicate if something is not working or your body/mind is in real danger of injury outside of what we want for the scene. If I can not trust that you will be able to communicate honestly and efficiently I will not play.
“Topping from the bottom” is when a submissive tries to take charge of the dynamic. Whether through deliberate disobedience, ignoring instructions, or—most commonly—telling the Domme how to act and exactly what to do, it flips the power: the sub ends up controlling and the Domme becomes a service-top playing out the sub’s fantasy. That isn’t inherently wrong, but it isn’t true submission.
As the Domme, I expect you to trust in My expertise. I use a careful pre-negotiation process to fully understand what you want, and you can have confidence in My years of experience to design a powerful, personalized session. While I always appreciate feedback and am interested in hearing about your fantasies, that does not mean you get to dictate the how and when of My choices.
Topping from the bottom usually happens because the sub does not completely trust the Domme's ability to fulfill their role, or because the sub is simply unable or unwilling to relinquish control. If I notice this happening, I will first discuss it to see if we can address the underlying issues. If it proves impossible to overcome, I will dissolve our dynamic.
Absolutely not! There is so much more to BDSM than pain. At the end of the day it’s about power exchange which can involve pain, but pain is not necessary. I adore playing with all the senses. This is an exploration of your submission, how that manifests between us and what we enjoy together. I am looking for you to relinquish control and trust My guidance on this journey. I have a whole toolbox of skills to get you there outside of physical torment.
I love feedback. I want to know what made you tick, swoon, gasp, beg, cry, moan. What excited you? What scared you? What gave you pleasure? What surprised you? What do you keep thinking about? I also want to know if there is anything you want more of, less of etc? This is usually best done through email outside of session, when you’ve had time to come down and reflect. All of this comes with a caveat. While I love hearing your feedback, this is not a disguised way for you to direct the scene or “top from the bottom.” I love to hear your feedback but that does not mean that I am going to give you only what you want. This is a power dynamic and My desires and needs are also important. Ultimately the structure of a scene is up to My discretion. I may decide to give you more of what you like or withhold it. I may decide to stretch and challenge you with what you think you dislike (honoring boundaries of course) because I see it as an important part of your growth. Ultimately I’ll expect you to trust My expertise and know that everything I do, I do for a reason. Even if that reason is simply for My own amusement. You are playing with a Domme after all.
Please don’t ask this. Every session and every client is unique. Just because I did something in one session does not mean I will repeat it. Part of what makes the experience so special is that it is exclusive to our particular dynamic, chemistry and moment. I do not create cut and paste scenes. You will receive your own unique experience curated to you.
I have been kinky for a very long time. Pre-Covid I often played one on one with partners. When Covid hit, My business in event production plummeted. One of My partners at the time suggested I become a Pro-Domme saying "You ARE a Domme. Just BE A DOMME!" It was the best advice I could have gotten.
From there I started My formal training. I received 1-1 mentorship under Princess Poison for 6 months followed by shadowing other Pro-Dommes until I was confident I was ready to start officially taking clients.
Since then, I continue to hone My craft by taking classes and workshops when I can. Part of what makes this world so exhilarating is the learning never stops.
Informally I have nearly 20 years of experience, and I brought that into the professional realm about four years ago and have never looked back!
Sometimes I wish I could share every intriguing and naughty kink I am privy to on a daily basis just to reassure those of you who are hesitant to talk about your own. The truth is, a lot of it is less taboo than you think — and if something truly is taboo, I'm even more fascinated. I'm passionate about My work, largely because I'm fascinated by the human mind and how it connects to eroticism and kink. I regard My role as sacred — as the keeper of people's deepest, darkest truths, I will never shame or diminish what you choose to share with me and hold it with deep respect and discretion.
Nothing feels too strange or unconventional for Me to consider, as long as it doesn't cross My hard limits. Respect those boundaries and don’t ask for services I’ve clearly stated I won’t provide.
I do not engage in anything involving scat, farts or offensive body odor. Children, animals or outside parties who have not given explicit consent are strictly prohibited. I will not provide any service or acts resulting in permanent disability, loss of limbs, hearing, vision or cognitive functions.
Feminization of all types but particularly sissies are some of My favorite submissives. I love the sounds they make and how they transform before My very eyes.
I also adore pain sluts who let Me beat their ass and torture their cock and balls. I suppose I am a bit of a traditionalist when I tell you how much I love impact play. Something about feeling that hard smack or blow against a tender bare ass as I watch it get redder and redder really gets Me going!
Roleplay of every kind is always so much fun but some of My personal favorites are abduction fantasies, Mommy kinks, Therapists and Religious role-play.
If you think there is a possibility you may want to extend your session time let Me know in advance so I can leave time after our booking to extend if I have it. Depending on My schedule, I may or may not have that flexibility and will let you know. If you don’t give Me a heads up in advance, there is a much smaller likelihood I will have that option available.
Yes! I have a FMTY option available. Please scroll to the bottom of My "Experiences" page on My website for details.
For My Denver, CO clients, I have special pricing available. Please inquire.
I absolutely do. I prefer if you show Me before publishing. Please refrain from sharing overly explicit details without My consent.
